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How to Program Your
|Wouldn't it be
wonderful if you could program your man as easily as
purchasing your next flick on pay per view?
Well it isn't as absurd as it sounds. Every day we program each
There are reasons why we like certain people and dislike others.
Many time this has nothing to do with logic and everything to do
Anchors create automatic responses. For example, many people smell
chocolate chip cookies or warm apple pie and think of warm happy
afternoons spent in their mother's kitchen. Just the scent creates
Another example on the flip side may be the sound of sirens. Many
of us get nervous at just hearing them in the vicinity when we are
driving, and begin nervously looking for police officers ready to
bust us for speeding.
We all have anchors. The good news is that while most people live
their life on autopilot, you can learn how to create anchors in
yourself and in the men that you want to date.
Here is one quick example: The next time that you are out on
a date or approached by a man that you find attractive:
1) smile at him and crack a joke
2) As soon as he starts smiling and laughing reach over and squeeze
his arm lightly.
That simple touch combined by the good feelings your joke inspired
has just become his anchor.
3) Now whenever you see him and want to inspire that same feeling
lightly squeeze his arm in the same place. He will automatically
feel good about you again.
Try it for yourself!
About the author:
Caterina Christakos is a published author and dating coach.For even
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