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Online dating. Is it taken too seriously?
|When I look at a
lot of the online dating services I notice one common trend.
People take it very seriously into finding there true love. I
find it absolutely amazing the amount of people who are looking
for there absolute perfect match.
There seems to be so many profiles out there who tell people exactly what it
is they want from a partner. Its as if there an owner of a
company and there trying to fill a certain job position. They
then take and list there requirements and what they expect from
a person. If they don't meet those requirements then they think
there unsuitable. I think that's crazy.
Dating is about getting to know people and then seeing if you enjoy spending
time with them. You will often meet people who you thought you
would never date and end up having a strong relationship with
them. I'm not saying that it isn't good to have certain
expectations. It is good to have an idea of what you want in a
partner. I'm just saying you need to have an open mind.
So what should you put in your profile?
Instead of a whole big list of stuff like this is what I want and this is
what I expect, you should have a touch of personality. Sure you
will have certain expectations. You need to personalize them, so
they just don't sound like your looking for a perfect person. If
you like to joke around then add some little funnies throughout
your profile. You need to show off your personality. Show people
how you see the world and that you don't take everything so
When you go to a nightclub you don't just go to meet someone, you go to have
some fun too. You need to look at online dating in the same way.
Have some fun with it and don't take it to seriously. You will
make things much easier on yourself.
About the author:
Tyler Casselman is an online dating expert. He owns the popular site
Online Dating Home.
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